We need to learn to be imperfect…we need to allow ourselves room for improvement, for mistakes, for wrongdoings. We need to make peace with our imperfection because being a perfectionist in this imperfect world is a misery…
If you are a perfectionist you are likely to agree that we have a strong desire to be perfect and do everything 100%. What I am interested here is the reason…Why is this the case and why do we praise ourselves for being perfectionists? Why do we feel not fully comfortable with being half-good at something? Read more
You see, sometimes you find yourself at an intersection…in fact, not an intersection, but at an end of the road, from which multiple roads are stemming. The good news is that it is not the ultimate end of the road and you have paths available, to choose from. The bad news is that this range of choice available to you leads to uncertainty. Read more
I have always kept a journal.
Since I was a teenager, I constantly believed that the best way to share my thoughts were with a journal. Writing cleared my mind. And it still does. It is amazing how much power the writing can have on me. When I feel agitated or furious, I write and that becomes a filter for my thoughts. I find out my worries, and problems and even start concentrating on the solutions.
I must admit though Read more